One of the greatest skills to learn for seduction is to know when to do nothing. Patience is a virtue in seduction. Many-a-times the chance for chemistry and romance is right there, staring you in the face and you, the over enthusiastic and eager guy desperately wanting to get into her pants, spurns it away.
The key word is “desperate”. That makes you look needy, a beta member of the male species. This is repulsive to women.
Seduction is a dance where two people tango and you have to learn the rhythm, when to pause, when to make your move, spin her around the floor and sweep her off her feet.
Sure, perhaps you may be able to get a kiss or cover a few bases very quickly the first night with women but then you’re done. She’s satiated with the experience while you cling on, wanting and expecting more, but she ain’t giving.
The best case scenario is for you to be a man and make her chase you. Not sure how to do this? Watch some James Bond movies starring Sean Connery, Pierce Brosnan, or Daniel Craig. Watch The Spirit and see how his indifference makes women swoon over him.
And not being too eager and available is sometimes the key to making her interested, or creeping her out and becoming disgusted at you. We’ll all been there where you let your intentions known too soon and she recoils. You CAN turn things around and save yourself from being written off by showing new value (confidence) and creating massive attraction with her, but this is now an uphill battle ~ consider that if you created massive interest and attraction in the first place you wouldn’t have to do this damage control.
From my personal experience, I’ve turned plenty of (obligatory) resistance around into hot and steamy X-rated sessions in just an hour by being patient and waiting it out. Of course, I’m not just sitting there like a mime, I’m doing things to affect and charm her mind, while letting my hand drift up to her face every now and then, for example.
In the past I would have either given up and taken her home, or put the pressure on and still not get anywhere with her. Patience is not only a virtue, it is a skill to the art of seduction. Learn it. It will get you good things.
Best,
Ronald Lee
www.manmeetswoman.com
778-999-5094 coach@manmeetswoman.com
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