Here is another video account of the in-field portion of the Secret Skills to Meeting Women weekend bootcamp, where James and Jimmy attempt to meet two women walking on the street.
On a typical weekend night in the club district of downtown Vancouver (typically along Granville street), you’ll find a lot of people walking about, either going to restaurants and going to nightclubs.
Meeting women later in the evening on the weekend progressively becomes more challenging as the night goes on, most women are so used to being approached by guys that they don’t want to be bothered unless something really special happens (yes, no matter what women say, if Brad Pitt, for example, stepped up to them, you can bet they’d be swooning on their feet).
A big thumbs up to James for giving an “A” for effort. Let’s not pretend that this was a great example of meeting anyone, in fact it was quite poor, but remember the guys are learning and will learn the most from feedback on what they are doing wrong and can do better.
There were a number of key mistakes they made.
You see, when women are out and about and in a hurry to get somewhere, the last thing they want is to be bothered and haranged by random guys on street, so you must be on top of your game if you want to meet women in the nightclub district on a Saturday night.
James and Jimmy did have a window of opportunity, albeit it was very small (literally seconds, yes several powerful seconds) where they have the women’s ATTENTION ON THEM and they had to be different and attractive from every other guy who has ever stepped to them, and will step up to them this night.
They had to have something interesting enough to say to stop the women and start building rapport and chemistry.
The women did stop, quickly screened the guys out when they didn’t have anything to offer and gave a token boyfriend objection.
This was a good learning experience for the guys as we gave them feedback right away, and again the next day, on what they should have done. After enough experiences like these, James and Jimmy will become very good at meeting women for sure. Props to the guys for their positive attitudes, it’s what will get them far in mastering this game.
Note: the in-field portion of the course is optional, you don’t have to do it, but we suggest you do as you will learn the most when you get feedback on what you are doing while you are under pressure.
Best,
Ronald Lee
www.manmeetswoman.com
778-999-5094 coach@manmeetswoman.com
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