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Kissing girls in clubs who have boyfriends I love kissing. Kissing is one of my favorite things. That's why I don't kiss girls in clubs. I let them kiss me. Mind the distinction. But I don't only kiss girls in clubs, I kiss them whenever and wherever I can, on the street, in malls, at events. I probably hold some sort of record for making out with girls while their boyfriend is in the same venue – which I don't find out until later. Why does that happen? Last Thursday I was conducting a coaching session at the Caprice night club in Vancouver for Mardi Gras night and girls were going around trying to steal beads from guys. I was happy to give pieces of my bead collection away to a particular brunette beauty, but only for a kiss. Yes, one on the cheek, and then the other, and, now, how about on the lips? A few kisses later, my brunette pursuer bounced away to her other girlfriends while I continued coaching. Later that night I run into her again, we exchange a few pleasantries (actually, direct game, for those who know what that is) and we make out a bit before departing ways again. At the (my) end of the night I finish winging one of my client's on one of his sets and then I catch my brunette walking a short distance away. I call her over, and tell her that I'm about to leave and that she can have my beads but only if she gives me the best kiss ever. She's hesitant and looks past me. So I let her kiss me on the cheek. Again I motion for my lips and she says something that I can't quite understand (couldn't hear her). I have her kiss me on the other cheek before I give her my beads and finish with my client. As it turned out, her boyfriend was a few feet off to my side watching her and she couldn't make out with me in front of him. This has happened before. Oftentimes I don't realize that the girl's boyfriend is in the club until I see them together. Sometimes she'll tell me she has a boyfriend and kiss me anyway. The last time I was at the Rum Jungle in Edmonton, I was eye flirting with this beautiful young girl all night and at one point I pulled her over to sarge her and she's giving me tons of kino, kissing on the cheeks and lips while I have her pulled into me, and when I ask her who she came with and where her boyfriend is, she says he's right behind her and lo and behold, I see him gaming a three set. Haaa. She seemed like a fun girl, but was on some sort of party bus that left soon thereafter. Kissing is something that I am very good at, but something that I had to learn the hard way how to do well. Not kissing itself, but rather how to get kisses. Many of you are lucky, you have resources to go to learn the game, but when I was learning, it took me longer than it should take any of you because I had to learn it all myself, with no one to guide me. It was really a lot of trial and error. What I find is that to learn how to get good and consistent kisses, guys today have to go through several stages. At first, it's mechanical and technique based. Look for an opportunity and then try to do a 'kiss' tactic to kiss. Often this means that the kiss is forced, or the kiss has to be forced. But it must be like this to learn how to read a when a woman wants to be kissed and how to set up kissing. The goal is to be able to have kissing happen more organically and less forcing (obviously, if she is the one kissing you there is no forcing going on). And this can only come from: experience from continual attempts at escalation. Of course, at the latter half of the extreme, there are (hopefully) other things going on for you (i.e your game is/becomes good) so that kissing is an obvious action for her. Also mind that, in clubs, sometimes you can ride the vibe and kiss girls and/or you can make out with a random girl, but it doesn't go anywhere after. Or other times, if you are the one to kiss her, you are put into that 'special someone' category and you are in like flinn. My girlfriend around this time last year was from a five minute make out at Cheers night club. In the case of the brunette in the first story…that was riding the vibe, but at the same time I do believe I could have made more happen with her. So today, wherever I am, when I want to kiss a girl, I usually will let her give me a sign that the kiss is on before we kiss, be it that she moves closer, or she puckers up and closes her eyes or whatever. I usually have women make the move to come over to my side to kiss and seldom do I have to pin a girl down to kiss her, or do I kiss her without her being warmed up enough for it (ironically, I had to literally pin down my current girlfriend to kiss her, but since then things have been great and we made love twice today, so I guess in the end it was worth it ). Go on to find out about our courses.
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