Hi there,

I run a few social groups on Meetup.com and one of my assistant organizers put up a BBQ event this Saturday.

Everyone is invited, there is no cost, and there is a guarantee that there will be many fine, attractive women at Kits Beach this weekend.

If you want to come, look for us at the far north end of the beach (past the volleyball area on the beach). Feel free to email me an RSVP if you like and I’ll give you better directions on how to find us.

Details below.

BARBEQUE AND WALK at Kits Beach

It’s BBQ time at Kits Beach. Let’s enjoy the summer!

“Meet and Greet” other Singles; Mingle, Eat and go for a Walk.

When: Saturday, July 31

Time: 11:30 a.m. – (Lunch time)

Where: Kitsilano Beach “Picnic Area” on the North side of the washrooms, where the park benches and basketball courts are. Look for the “Canada” flag and a colorful table(cloth).

Cost: FREE (Bring your own hamburgers, hot dogs, drinks, etc.)

Note: There will be a small BBQ grill there, but would appreciate a few more BBQ grills.

Remember,… this is a dating group. We encourage people to exchange e-mail addresses, telephone numbers, business cards,…hugs and kisses,…

And Bring your Friends! Just have them email me to RSVP.

Notes:
*Bring your folding Chair, Sunglasses, Sunscreen, etc.,…
*If it’s Raining, the BBQ will be canceled and re-scheduled TBA
*If you want to help in the morning with the setting and organization, please email me and I’ll pass your name over to John, the host for the event.

Best,

Ronald Lee
www.manmeetswoman.com
778-999-5094 coach@manmeetswoman.com
…follow me on twitter! http://twitter.com/RonaldMMW

Hi there,

Our next Wingman Tactics and Rules course is fast approaching and I’ve made a video explaining why you should come to the wingman tactics and rules course (see above).

In a nutshell, you want to come because:

1. You will learn how NOT to get in each other’s way.
2. You will learn how its easier for TWO GUYS to pull/bounce women to other venues than it is for one guy.
3. You will meet other guys you can go out and be wingmen with.

Are you coming?

Make it a point to invest the time, effort, and money (it’s such a small amount) to attend by registering on this page.

See you on Sunday, August 1st!

Note: this post originally from www.wingmantactics.com.

Best,

Ronald Lee
www.manmeetswoman.com
778-999-5094 coach@manmeetswoman.com
…follow me on twitter! http://twitter.com/RonaldMMW

Hey there,

I wanted to fire off this email before the start of the Victoria Day long weekend (in BC) and share three news tidbits with you.

1) We’re pushing back the start date of the next The Art of Attraction 3 month coaching program. Not to the week after, but to June 12th. The reason is we’re all working on a number of big projects for you and our commitment to run the course is so great that we aren’t available at least until then.

You’ll hear about what we’re rolling out soon enough, one of which is…

2) The Vancouver Social Board men’s group has been relaunched. We had 11 guys come last Wednesday for the men’s group meeting and another ten who couldn’t make it because of the short notice. Twenty one guys right off the bat is outstanding.

You can go to the website at http://www.vancouversocialboard.com and sign up for the newsletter there to the official site launch announcement, as is a separate email list.

Two things right off the bat about the group

• We’re taking people who want to assume proactive positions and lead the group and
• This is by far not a pick up artist lair.

3) Flirt Fest! Rendezvous Club is holding another edition of their popular Flirt Fest, where the women approach the men! More info is found at www.rclub.ca. If you are interested in joining our group, there will be a slight discount, depending on how many people come, or you can sign up for the event individually on their site.

That’s all for now, I hope you have a fantastic long weekend!

PS: We are looking for more interns to help with specific projects. We’ll teach you what to do if you bring a willingness to become involved.

Best,

Ronald Lee
www.manmeetswoman.com
778-999-5094 coach@manmeetswoman.com
…follow me on twitter! http://twitter.com/RonaldMMW

Last week Vancouver speed dating company, Rendezvous Club (RClub for short, www.rclub.ca) held their 4th Annual 100 Dates in 100 Minutes event at Caprice Nightclub.

This is where Rendezvous Club goes all out and has 100 speed dates in one night. No simple task, I assure you. This was the third event of RClub’s that I’ve been to, the second being their previous Flirt Fest (their next one is around the corner! Want to go? Read til the bottom for details).

All in all, the event was very well organized and went smoothly, without a hitch, which explains why Rendezvous Club is Vancouver’s top speed dating company. Here’s a recap of how the night went for us.

I brought 11 guys to the event. We all met at Blenz at Granville and Nelson to hang out (see men’s group post) and socialize before the event. When we got to Caprice, the venue was already nicely setup and half the speed daters where already there.

Everyone immediately broke off and started chatting to the beautiful people there, of which there were many, and after some opening remarks from The Beat 94.5’s Holly Conway, we started.

The way the event was set up, people were put into one of three age groups (which were 18-27 years, 28-34 years, and 35-40 years old), each of which had 33 couples in them. Each “couple” was given 3 minutes to date, after which the guy would move over to the next girl and another date would begin.

There was a long break in the middle of the event and by the time the event wrapped up, it was already 11:30pm and most people booked it out of there as they had to work the next morning.

Results: What Did We Think?

Most of the guys I know who attended received between zero to 3 matches. Given how women screen men at speed dating, even getting 1 match is still very good:

(I do have several studies on speed dating, which I’ll write about in a future post probably).

If women are choosier, then what are the keys to success?

I think today, men just have to be their cool, normal, interesting selves. I did hear from Holly that there were a lot of boring guys and a few weird ones. I was amazed that some guys were still trying to uses Pick Up Artist lines/game as well that night (how many times do I have to tell you guys being a PUA doesn’t work? Future blog post for sure.).

I did ask some of the guys what they thought, and here is what one of them had to say:

In the end, how did *I* do? That’s for me to know, haa. But I will share that the only girl I remember that night was Holly (no offense to my other matches, it’s not too terribly a surprise is it?), a fellow Sagittarian who gave me her phone number at the end. We’ve already made plans for the weekend and she wants to play some game she calls ‘mount’ or something; I’m really looking forward to seeing her, I like her a lot.

All in all, bravo and good job to Chris and Rendezvous Club Vancouver Speed Dating.

PS: RClub’s next Flirt Fest is around the corner, on May 28th! Want to attend (I think the group already wants to go)? If so, then email me ASAP or contact them directly via their website at www.rclub.ca.

Best,

Ronald Lee
www.manmeetswoman.com
778-999-5094 coach@manmeetswoman.com
…follow me on twitter! http://twitter.com/RonaldMMW

Hello everyone,

As mentioned in the previous post, we are starting to soft roll out of a number of really beneficial events and activities for you, the men of Vancouver. This has been long in the works and we’re the experts when it comes to men’s issues

New Men’s Social Improvement Group Meetings Starting…now!

We’re having bi-weekly open meetings for men to come and talk about your challenges around confidence, social skills and being a man dating in Vancouver. These will be small group ‘mastermind’ style meetings where everyone gets a chance to talk about whatever is going on for you at the moment and benefit from the advice of the room.

Sometimes we’ll have special topics, sometimes it’ll be an open forum. This will definitely grow into something huge, you don’t want to miss it.

These will happen every two weeks, either on a Sunday, Tuesday, or Wednesday, and for the time being, I’ll send out an email when we have these until we have enough of a list of attendees that we’ll just email that list. If you already know you want to be included in the notifications for Men’s Social Improvement Group Meetings,  let me know now.

The first one is on Wednesday, May 19th, 2010 at 7pm. The topic for this one, in light that we’re having our next the Art of Attraction 3 month course is….”Everything You Wanted to Know About the Art of Attraction: CRASH COURSE”. We are going to take an hour, talk as much about the course as possible and answer all your questions about what’s in the course, in addition to hearing about what your challenges in dating are today.

This is your chance to get some real information and a leg up on dating and relationships that other people and so-called experts can’t tell you.

Want to come? Email us ASAP to reserve your seat (very limited seating) and we’ll give you the details.

PS: A full 11 of us went to Rendezvous Club’s 100 Dates in 100 Minutes last night. It was a really well done, good event. Stay tuned for the review of the event after the weekend!

Best,

Ronald Lee
www.manmeetswoman.com
778-999-5094 coach@manmeetswoman.com
…follow me on twitter! http://twitter.com/RonaldMMW

Hello everyone,

I hope you’re having a great week and enjoying our fabulous weather. Not surprisingly, we, the Man Meets Woman team, are still busy working away on a number of new initiatives for you. Someone one said that when it comes to big things, estimate how long you think it’ll take to do them…and then triple that!

Well, that certainly is the case here.

I’ll try to keep this post brief, there are two things I’d like to talk about today:

1)      This next Art of Attraction course is the last one before we have to charge HST.

2)      We are starting Open Discussion Meetings every two weeks from now on for everyone.

1) This next Art of Attraction course is the last one before we have to charge HST.

On May 22^nd our next the Art of Attraction 3 Month Coaching Program starts, which is the last one before we have to start charging the HST (which means an additional 7% in taxes)

You can thank Premiere Gordon Campbell for that. In the meantime, if you know you want help to get your dating and relationship skills in order and you’re on the fence about taking our course to improve your life and meet women, then now is the time to do it before the Hated Sales Tax comes into play on July 1^st.

What is the Art of Attraction 3 Month Coaching Program?

One of the things we are working on is creating a lot more educational material on the course to give you an exact idea of what it’s about beyond it’s description here: http://www.manmeetswoman.com/coaching-programs/art-of-attraction/

So I apologize that it’s not ready yet. Suffice to say, you do want to take it, trust me.

But that leads us into item #2.

2) We Are Holding Open Bi-Weekly Meetings for Men in Vancouver

This is part of some of the things we’d like to do this summer, let’s get the ball rolling by starting regular men’s group meetings (both for people new to Man Meets Woman and also as a way to continue our service with past/existing clients – I’ll explain more about this later when we have more to tell you).

Thus, I’d like to call a Man Meets Woman Discussion Meeting for May 19^th, 2010 at 7pm.

The topic will be “What Can Make Your Dating Life Better in Vancouver?” and this informal discussion will be about what’s in the Art of Attraction 3 Month Coaching Program, as well as what it’s like to meet women and date in Vancouver, and we’ll also discuss what we can do this Summer the best in your dating life so far!

Please call us at 778-999-5094 or email us at coach@manmeetswoman.com to inquire about about either item above.

PS: Still not sure about taking the Art of Attraction? We’ll give you a FREE Attraction Assessment to see if you need it. Ask us how!

Best,

Ronald Lee
www.manmeetswoman.com
778-999-5094 coach@manmeetswoman.com
…follow me on twitter! http://twitter.com/RonaldMMW

Today was the first day of concept coaching and the second in-field coaching for the guys in the Secret Skills to Meeting Women weekend bootcamp with Man Meets Woman.

In this video account of a typical in-field coaching session, we had two of our clients, Jimmy and Fred, talk to some girls on the street from a cold approach (meaning they had never met the women before).

As you will see in the video, they did a really good job, the women were all smiling, laughing, having a good time. Have a look.

First, good job with the guys. I know many men who would be intimdated at the thought of approaching a group of women, and they both did it well and ‘got in’ very quickly.

With a group that size and with the amount of rapport the guys were building, their biggest mistake was that they didn’t stay with the women longer to build DEEPER rapport and connection and really get to know them (c’mon, judging from the women’s reactions, perhaps half, if not all, the women were single and here we have two good looking guys charming them).

They were definitely on their way to creating comfort, trust, and chemistry, perhaps next time the guys will know to aim for that and translate that into future dates and make them their girlfriends.

The Secret Skills to Meeting Women Weekend Bootcamp is entirely concerned with how to meet women. It’s a nerve wracking experience but once your in the groove, its fun, exciting, and empowering.

Comments?

Note: the in-field portion of the course is optional, you don’t have to do it, but we suggest you do as you will learn the most when you get feedback on what you are doing while you are under pressure.

Best,

Ronald Lee
www.manmeetswoman.com
778-999-5094 coach@manmeetswoman.com
…follow me on twitter! http://twitter.com/RonaldMMW

Here is another video account of the in-field portion of the Secret Skills to Meeting Women weekend bootcamp, where James and Jimmy attempt to meet two women walking on the street.

On a typical weekend night in the club district of downtown Vancouver (typically along Granville street), you’ll find a lot of people walking about, either going to restaurants and going to nightclubs.

Meeting women later in the evening on the weekend progressively becomes more challenging as the night goes on, most women are so used to being approached by guys that they don’t want to be bothered unless something really special happens (yes, no matter what women say, if Brad Pitt, for example, stepped up to them, you can bet they’d be swooning on their feet).

A big thumbs up to James for giving an “A” for effort. Let’s not pretend that this was a great example of meeting anyone, in fact it was quite poor, but remember the guys are learning and will learn the most from feedback on what they are doing wrong and can do better.

There were a number of key mistakes they made.

You see, when women are out and about and in a hurry to get somewhere, the last thing they want is to be bothered and haranged by random guys on street, so you must be on top of your game if you want to meet women in the nightclub district on a Saturday night.

James and Jimmy did have a window of opportunity, albeit it was very small (literally seconds, yes several powerful seconds) where they have the women’s ATTENTION ON THEM and they had to be different and attractive from every other guy who has ever stepped to them, and will step up to them this night.

They had to have something interesting enough to say to stop the women and start building rapport and chemistry.

The women did stop, quickly screened the guys out when they didn’t have anything to offer and gave a token boyfriend objection.

This was a good learning experience for the guys as we gave them feedback right away, and again the next day, on what they should have done. After enough experiences like these, James and Jimmy will become very good at meeting women for sure. Props to the guys for their positive attitudes, it’s what will get them far in mastering this game.

Note: the in-field portion of the course is optional, you don’t have to do it, but we suggest you do as you will learn the most when you get feedback on what you are doing while you are under pressure.

Best,

Ronald Lee
www.manmeetswoman.com
778-999-5094 coach@manmeetswoman.com
…follow me on twitter! http://twitter.com/RonaldMMW

What is live in-field coaching like from a coaches point of view?

It’s Saturday night and we are at the tail end of some live in-field coaching for the Secret Skils to Meeting Women bootcamp with a number of clients/students.

Each of the three coaches took 3 clients each (typical ratio is 3-4 clients per coach) and watched their interaction with women.

Our goal, as coaches, is to make sure each and every client learns something and improves his experience with women, he must progress and we make sure he does through insightful, expert feedback that really gets into the heart of the matter/problem, not through giving more random tricks and techniques.

Note: the in-field portion of the course is optional, you don’t have to do it, but we suggest you do as you will learn the most when you get feedback on what you are doing while you are under pressure.

Best,

Ronald Lee
www.manmeetswoman.com
778-999-5094 coach@manmeetswoman.com
…follow me on twitter! http://twitter.com/RonaldMMW

It’s a Tuesday and two days prior, Jimmy finished attended the Man Meets Woman Secret Skills to Meeting Women weekend bootcamp.

In this video account of his experience, Jimmy describes exactly what happened in the course, how hard it was to start, but how easy it was to finish once he learned how to use the concepts and principles, how he got through his own (approach) anxiety, and how meeting a great group of like-minded guys really made it all the more easier for him.

It’s astounds me every time someone as handsome and charismatic as Jimmy comes to me for help with women, although it’s no surprise as I have coached a lot of very good looking (and some famous) men.

And I have no doubt that Jimmy will success at effortlessly meeting women, perhaps as short as in a couple of month, it will become second nature to him.

Watch and listen to what he really thought about his coaching experience.

Questions?

Best,

Ronald Lee
www.manmeetswoman.com
778-999-5094 coach@manmeetswoman.com
…follow me on twitter! http://twitter.com/RonaldMMW